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A little slice of life
When I first came to Europe from Africa, with my aunt, I sharply remember how I found everything weird. I wasn’t like the other kids. I was there and well aware. It started in the airplane. I remember how we were served peas, and I didn’t know how to eat with a fork. In Togo,…
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The tyranny of the new normal and acceptable
Isn’t it ironic how you get a brain by nature, but depending on where you are and when you are there, you get forced into a certain way of thinking and using your brain?You get forced to acknowledge what is normal, thus acceptable and what isn’t.If you would put someone from 100 years ago in…
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Pick up your sword.
When you toss the coin, you discover the other side of it. This is exactly what I did some time ago.Being called authoritative, domineering, bossy, etc, by a few people, I started to explore this.I believe it is important to listen to criticism and feedback, in order to grow. No matter how painful. The first…
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*The art of manipulation in building bridges.*
Or how to get people to relate, act or understand a cause you are affected by, and that doesn’t apparently concern them. As a professional ‘victim syndrome’ individual :p , I have had my fair share of moments where I wasn’t finding people to listen to me or try to relate and understand what I have been…
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Yesterday, I had a great time talking to a friend. Our conversation started tensed.Yet, driven by true love and care for each other, we didn’t give up, and genuinely listened to each other. We got how each of us have a different sense of reality. We got to open up and share what we felt,…
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Note to my self-righteous and bloated self:
” keep an eye at the horizon, but keep sweeping in front of your own door.”
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For an artist like me, social media are a true hell. It’s not really a secret that I have grown increasingly frustrated with how social media has evolved.It’s like attending a loathed family Christmas party as a teenager, whilst you would want to hang out with your cool friends, instead of hearing the bullshit of…
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Hello One-minute lover and friend,
I just wondered today, When you ejaculate, is it as dry and chalky like powdered milk?And are you afraid your wrinkled balls will shrivel to stone? As queasy and infertile as the attention depriving little pieces you like to call love or friendship? With your stingy, tiny breadcrumb throwing love style.If you want to court…
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I’ve always wanted to be self-sufficient.Taking care of myself and others.Doing something that is useful and has sense. So I have decided to not wait for ” if I have… then…”, but just to start where I am at.The reason why I decided that, is because if I wait for the conditions to be right,…
Najois 